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A reckoning on social media addiction came late for many kids. Will AI safety be different?

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A reckoning on social media addiction came late for many kids. Will AI safety be different?
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A reckoning on social media addiction came late for many kids. Will AI safety be different?

2026-10-05 15:00 Last Updated At:15:10

Years after the risks of social media for kids first became apparent, U.S. states this summer reached an accord hailed as a turning point for child safety. Meanwhile, a new generation of children has begun engaging with an even more potent technology: artificial intelligence.

While the efforts to make social media safer are still taking shape, they offer some lessons for those looking to protect children using AI — technology that is growing so quickly, the extent of its risks for young people and their development is just emerging.

When Meta agreed to changes to its social media platforms and enhanced safeguards in an $18 billion settlement, it made progress by “getting at what we’ve known for years” about the dangers, said Kristin Bride, a parent advocate who has fought for social media reform since the death of her teenage son. “How are we going to get at what we don’t know is coming?”

AI companies have begun rolling out some safety features introduced first by social media companies, including age assurance measures and restricted experiences for minors. But advocates say the most important takeaway from the efforts of parents, tech companies and regulators to find a way forward on social media safety may be to act sooner on mitigating AI's harms for kids.

“The greatest legacy from the social media experiment and learnings is that hopefully we’re not going to sleepwalk into this next tech revolution,” said Dr. Dana Suskind, a professor of surgery and pediatrics at the University of Chicago, and author of “Human Raised.” “We learned that we had it all backwards, right? You don’t unleash something on a population, figure out if it does harm or not in real time, and then go back and say, ‘Oops.’”

Concerns around social media have centered on the amount of time kids spend on platforms like Instagram and TikTok, and the consequences for their mental health. Advocates also have focused on data privacy and kids' vulnerability to cyberbullying or predators who find them online.

Artificial intelligence can be more pervasive for kids. Children not only see AI-generated content on social media platforms, but they can also readily communicate with AI chatbots, including some on social media apps. Many use it for help with school and homework. Some have formed unhealthy relationships with chatbots, and experts have raised questions about how access to AI is affecting children's brain development. Companies are pushing AI-powered toys for kids as young as 2.

Campaigns for social media and AI safety for kids are both playing out on legal and legislative fronts. Individuals and states have sued tech companies over concerns around their products’ safety and both state and federal lawmakers are grappling with how to regulate the tech.

Compared with social media companies, AI giants have been moving somewhat more quickly to add safeguards, motivated perhaps by the growing regulatory and societal scrutiny of social media’s effects on kids’ mental health.

OpenAI introduced teen accounts in August, about four years after launching ChatGPT, with restrictions that include a ban on romantic chats and any suggestions that the chatbot has personal feelings toward the user.

Meta, which bought Instagram in 2012, didn’t launch teen accounts on the platform until 2024.

In announcing the settlement agreement this summer, Meta said that “ensuring teens have a safe and productive experience on our platforms is an absolute imperative” for the company. Meta also urged its competitors, TikTok and YouTube, to adopt some of the standards it is implementing as a result of the settlement.

The protections outlined in the Meta settlement cannot easily be applied to AI because of the differences in the way young people interact with AI versus social media, experts said.

One of the challenges of restricting AI for minors is that it’s “much easier to point to the upsides” for teens compared with social media, said Sarah Kreps, a professor and director of Cornell University’s Tech Policy Institute. While there are concerns about cheating, for instance, kids are also using AI for tutoring and legitimate homework help.

“It’s not a matter of just saying ‘let’s limit this to two hours’ or 'let’s limit this between the hours of 10 at night and 6 in the morning’ because there are these salutary uses of AI that I think are harder to justify in the context of social media,” Kreps said.

A majority of U.S. teens — 64% — say they have used AI chatbots, according to the Pew Research Center. Looking up information and getting help with schoolwork tops the list of uses, though 47% say they’ve used chatbots for fun and 42% have used it to summarize an article, book or video. About 12% have turned to bots for emotional support or advice.

Jonathan Haidt, a social psychologist and author of “The Anxious Generation,” said he is most worried about the relationships and attachments young people can build with chatbots and the “cognitive offloading” that happens when people defer their thought processes to a chatbot.

“I have long thought that AI is a much bigger threat to children even than social media,” Haidt said. “But if we can’t win on social media, then it will be hopeless on AI.”

While recent litigation has held social media companies responsible for harms to users, federal legislation of social media has meandered and AI legislation has lagged.

The Trump administration has said regulation, especially across states instead of at a federal level, could hinder AI companies’ growth and sacrifice American labs’ lead in the global AI race, but some lawmakers are trying to move the needle.

Some AI legislation specific to children’s safety issues — like youth privacy, chatbot interactions and AI toy safety — have passed through Senate subcommittees with bipartisan support, but there’s still a long road for any such legislation to pass. Legislation at the state level is moving faster, as seen also in the role states have played in pushing Meta on social media harms.

“One of the things we’ve seen with social media, which I think will still be true with AI, is that we live in a federal system where states make laws on everything from e-bikes to driving permits to gun laws and that federal legislation or federal rules are much more difficult,” Kreps said.

Some say the biggest win from the progress on social media safety this year has been heightened awareness of online dangers for kids.

Bride, whose son Carson died after experiencing severe cyberbullying on Snapchat, said it’s encouraging to see legislators wrestling with how to regulate AI, but acknowledged the reality that legislation can’t keep up with the technological developments — and that kids will continue to experience AI-related harms in the meantime.

“I don’t think we can afford any more mea culpas when kids are concerned,” she said.

FILE - Kristin Bride, right, mother of 16-year-old Carson Bride, who died by suicide after being cyber-bullied on an anonymous app on Snapchat, is joined by Amy Neville, left, mother of 14-year-old Alexander Neville, who died from fentanyl poisoning after being deceived by a drug dealer operating on Snapchat, during a Social Media Victims Remembrance Day memorial on Capitol Hill, June 23, 2026, in Washington. (AP Photo/Rod Lamkey, Jr., File)

FILE - Kristin Bride, right, mother of 16-year-old Carson Bride, who died by suicide after being cyber-bullied on an anonymous app on Snapchat, is joined by Amy Neville, left, mother of 14-year-old Alexander Neville, who died from fentanyl poisoning after being deceived by a drug dealer operating on Snapchat, during a Social Media Victims Remembrance Day memorial on Capitol Hill, June 23, 2026, in Washington. (AP Photo/Rod Lamkey, Jr., File)

FILE - ChatGPT history by a teenager is seen at a coffee shop in Russellville, Ark., on July 15, 2025. (AP Photo/Katie Adkins, File)

FILE - ChatGPT history by a teenager is seen at a coffee shop in Russellville, Ark., on July 15, 2025. (AP Photo/Katie Adkins, File)

Before the sun rises over the Ionian Sea, teenagers from the tiny Greek island of Kalamos file into a sea taxi, backpacks slung over their shoulders, to make the half-hour crossing to the mainland.

They are on their way to school, the predawn commute a glimpse of a broader problem facing most of Europe: There are fewer children to fill classrooms and remote communities like those on islands often feel the effects first.

On Kalamos, the primary school only has two students left. When they leave for middle school on the mainland next year, the island’s last working school will close.

The island has about 80 year-round residents, of whom seven are teenagers. On windy days, the sea can be too rough for the ferry to cross, and students miss class.

“There used to be a lot of children on Kalamos,” said Antonis Aivaliotis, a high school senior making the crossing who expects to leave after graduation. “It was very nice. We played together every day. We went to (primary) school every morning,”

“Of course I would like to stay here,” he said. “I love Kalamos. It is my home. But there’s no development at all.”

Chryssa Ntalaka, the island’s primary schoolteacher, has spent 20 years working in remote Greek schools, sometimes as the only teacher, combining grades and teaching everything from Greek and math to history, science and physical education.

The classroom on Kalamos is now largely empty. Nearby, the island’s kindergarten has been closed for three years, with toys still sitting on shelves.

“I will have to leave Kalamos,” Dalaka said. Keeping the school open would require only two more families, she said. “Just two families — a simple move.”

Greece is confronting a sustained population decline, recording more deaths than births every year since 2011. By 2050, Greece’s population could fall from about 10.5 million today to between 8 million and 8.5 million, with young people becoming a minority, according to Aris Alexopoulos, head of the OECD Crete Centre on Population Dynamics.

Low enrollment prompted Greek authorities to close 75 schools this year and suspend or extend the suspension of classes at more than 400 others.

Byron Kotzamanis, co-founder of the Institute of Demographic Research in Athens, said school closures in areas with few students should be made “very sparingly and carefully,” and not based on economics alone.

School closures encourage people of working age to leave remote areas and start a family elsewhere, he argued.

“Closing schools leads to young people not staying (in a remote community) and to them leaving,” Kotzamanis said. “Leaving means fewer and fewer people — fewer and fewer births. It means depopulation and dead settlements that will become nursing homes.”

Gatopoulos reported from Athens, Greece.

This is a photo story curated by AP photo editors.

High school students wait for classes to begin at a school in the mainland town of Mytikas, western Greece, early Thursday, Sept. 24, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

High school students wait for classes to begin at a school in the mainland town of Mytikas, western Greece, early Thursday, Sept. 24, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

A high school student waits for classes to begin at a school in the mainland town of Mytikas, western Greece, Thursday, Sept. 24, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

A high school student waits for classes to begin at a school in the mainland town of Mytikas, western Greece, Thursday, Sept. 24, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

High school student Antonis Aivaliotis, 17, center, travels with other passengers by boat across the Ionian Sea from the island of Kalamos, where he lives, to school in the mainland town of Mytikas, western Greece, early Thursday, Sept. 24, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

High school student Antonis Aivaliotis, 17, center, travels with other passengers by boat across the Ionian Sea from the island of Kalamos, where he lives, to school in the mainland town of Mytikas, western Greece, early Thursday, Sept. 24, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

High school student Panagiotis Fatouros, 16, center, travels across the Ionian Sea with other students and passengers by boat from the island of Kalamos to the mainland town of Mytikas, where the students attend school, in western Greece, early Thursday, Sept. 24, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

High school student Panagiotis Fatouros, 16, center, travels across the Ionian Sea with other students and passengers by boat from the island of Kalamos to the mainland town of Mytikas, where the students attend school, in western Greece, early Thursday, Sept. 24, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

The island of Kalamos is seen from Mytikas, the nearest mainland town, in western Greece, early Thursday, Sept. 24, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

The island of Kalamos is seen from Mytikas, the nearest mainland town, in western Greece, early Thursday, Sept. 24, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

Middle and high school students travel by passenger boat across the Ionian Sea from the island of Kalamos, where they live, to schools in the mainland town of Mytikas, western Greece, early Thursday, Sept. 24, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

Middle and high school students travel by passenger boat across the Ionian Sea from the island of Kalamos, where they live, to schools in the mainland town of Mytikas, western Greece, early Thursday, Sept. 24, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

Middle and high school students board a passenger boat on the island of Kalamos to travel to schools in the mainland town of Mytikas, western Greece, early Thursday, Sept. 24, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

Middle and high school students board a passenger boat on the island of Kalamos to travel to schools in the mainland town of Mytikas, western Greece, early Thursday, Sept. 24, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

High school student John Kestegias stands on a chair while meeting friends at a snack bar on the island of Kalamos in the Ionian Sea, western Greece, Wednesday, Sept. 23, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

High school student John Kestegias stands on a chair while meeting friends at a snack bar on the island of Kalamos in the Ionian Sea, western Greece, Wednesday, Sept. 23, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

A man rides a motorcycle along an empty street on the island of Kalamos in the Ionian Sea, western Greece, Wednesday, Sept. 23, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

A man rides a motorcycle along an empty street on the island of Kalamos in the Ionian Sea, western Greece, Wednesday, Sept. 23, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

A woman drinks coffee at a snack bar on the island of Kalamos in the Ionian Sea, western Greece, Wednesday, Sept. 23, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

A woman drinks coffee at a snack bar on the island of Kalamos in the Ionian Sea, western Greece, Wednesday, Sept. 23, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

A tourist sunbathes at Agrapidia Beach on the island of Kalamos in the Ionian Sea, western Greece, Wednesday, Sept. 23, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

A tourist sunbathes at Agrapidia Beach on the island of Kalamos in the Ionian Sea, western Greece, Wednesday, Sept. 23, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

A sailboat is seen off Agrapidia Beach on the island of Kalamos in the Ionian Sea, western Greece, Wednesday, Sept. 23, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

A sailboat is seen off Agrapidia Beach on the island of Kalamos in the Ionian Sea, western Greece, Wednesday, Sept. 23, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

A classroom display hangs on a wall inside a kindergarten that has remained closed for a second consecutive school year because of a lack of students on the island of Kalamos in the Ionian Sea, western Greece, Wednesday, Sept. 23, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

A classroom display hangs on a wall inside a kindergarten that has remained closed for a second consecutive school year because of a lack of students on the island of Kalamos in the Ionian Sea, western Greece, Wednesday, Sept. 23, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

An empty classroom is seen at a kindergarten that has remained closed for a second consecutive school year because of a lack of students on the island of Kalamos in the Ionian Sea, western Greece, Wednesday, Sept. 23, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

An empty classroom is seen at a kindergarten that has remained closed for a second consecutive school year because of a lack of students on the island of Kalamos in the Ionian Sea, western Greece, Wednesday, Sept. 23, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

A map of Greece hangs on a wall as teacher Chryssa Ntalaka and her two sixth-grade students, the only students at Kalamos Primary School, leave their classroom on the island of Kalamos in the Ionian Sea, western Greece, Wednesday, Sept. 23, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

A map of Greece hangs on a wall as teacher Chryssa Ntalaka and her two sixth-grade students, the only students at Kalamos Primary School, leave their classroom on the island of Kalamos in the Ionian Sea, western Greece, Wednesday, Sept. 23, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

A picture depicting Jesus Christ is displayed above a chalkboard in an unused classroom at Kalamos Primary School, which has only two students, both in sixth grade, on the island of Kalamos in the Ionian Sea, western Greece, Wednesday, Sept. 23, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

A picture depicting Jesus Christ is displayed above a chalkboard in an unused classroom at Kalamos Primary School, which has only two students, both in sixth grade, on the island of Kalamos in the Ionian Sea, western Greece, Wednesday, Sept. 23, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

Teacher Chryssa Ntalaka teaches music to the two students of Kalamos Primary School, including Gerasimos Mitsopoulos, 11, right, on the island of Kalamos in the Ionian Sea, western Greece, Wednesday, Sept. 23, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

Teacher Chryssa Ntalaka teaches music to the two students of Kalamos Primary School, including Gerasimos Mitsopoulos, 11, right, on the island of Kalamos in the Ionian Sea, western Greece, Wednesday, Sept. 23, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

Gerasimos Mitsopoulos, 11, one of two students at Kalamos Primary School, plays basketball at the school on the island of Kalamos in the Ionian Sea, western Greece, Wednesday, Sept. 23, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

Gerasimos Mitsopoulos, 11, one of two students at Kalamos Primary School, plays basketball at the school on the island of Kalamos in the Ionian Sea, western Greece, Wednesday, Sept. 23, 2026. (AP Photo/Petros Giannakouris)

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