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Parenting support heals family bonds

2026-02-08 11:54 Last Updated At:11:55

Mr Lui has been divorced for three years and is raising two children on his own. Both children have attention deficit/hyperactivity disorder and his son also suffers from dyslexia. Mr Lui quit his job to focus entirely on their daily care, but the immense pressure he faced took its toll and in a moment of distress, he resorted to physically disciplining his daughter.

Mending relationships: During an immensely stressful time in his life, Mr Lui resorted to physically disciplining his daughter, but says he now realises it was futile to punish her in that way. Image source: www.news.gov.hk

Mending relationships: During an immensely stressful time in his life, Mr Lui resorted to physically disciplining his daughter, but says he now realises it was futile to punish her in that way. Image source: www.news.gov.hk

“At first, I did not know they had attention deficit issues, and I felt quite helpless,” Mr Lui explained.

“That day, I had arranged a school activity for my daughter, so I woke her up at around 7am. But even after calling her, she kept dragging her feet.

“We were already running late and I did not want her to miss the activity, so in a moment of anger, I hit her with a clothes hanger. Looking back now, I know hitting her at that moment was completely pointless.”

Immediate guidance

After the Social Welfare Department’s Family & Child Protective Services Unit intervened, Mr Lui’s daughter was sent to stay with an emergency foster family, while he received counselling and other forms of support.

In order to strengthen assistance for families facing parenting difficulties or potential risks of child abuse, the department funded non-governmental organisations to establish six Child Protection Support Service Teams in March last year. The teams comprise professionals including social workers, psychologists and nurses, and handle cases referred by the department. By the end of September last year, they had handled 428 family cases.

Social Welfare Department Family & Child Protective Services Unit (Sha Tin) Social Work Officer Natalie Cheung explained that the services provided by the teams cover a wide range of needs, including home visitation support services, various group and training programmes, as well as family enrichment activities. The teams also accompany parents and their children to follow-up medical appointments when needed.

She highlighted that home visitation support is a key component of the service.

“While counselling usually takes place in an office setting, parents may not always find it easy to apply what they have learned at home. The teams can visit families to demonstrate and observe interactions on the spot, providing timely guidance.”

Helping hand: Social Welfare Department Family & Child Protective Services Unit (Sha Tin) Social Work Officer Natalie Cheung states that Child Protection Support Service Teams can visit families to demonstrate and observe interactions on the spot, providing timely guidance. Image source: www.news.gov.hk

Helping hand: Social Welfare Department Family & Child Protective Services Unit (Sha Tin) Social Work Officer Natalie Cheung states that Child Protection Support Service Teams can visit families to demonstrate and observe interactions on the spot, providing timely guidance. Image source: www.news.gov.hk

Rebuilding relationships

The support team taught Mr Lui appropriate ways to interact with his children. After six months of effort, his daughter was able to move back home. Team members also visited the family to help them declutter their living space together.

“I feel I am no longer on my own. Their support gave me the motivation to move forward,” Mr Lui revealed. “I understand my children better now and have learned how to communicate with them more effectively. As communication improves, our relationship becomes more comfortable for everyone.”

Strengthened measures

According to figures from the department, the number of newly registered child protection cases has shown a continuous increase over the past five years, from 940 cases in 2020 to 1,504 in 2024. In the first three quarters of 2025, 1,022 cases were recorded.

The Mandatory Reporting of Child Abuse Ordinance came into effect on January 20. Under the ordinance, 25 categories of specified professionals including social workers, teachers, doctors and clinical psychologists are required to make a report as soon as possible, if they have reasonable grounds to suspect that a child has suffered serious harm or faces a real risk of serious harm.

Social Welfare Department Family & Child Welfare Branch Chief Social Work Officer (Domestic Violence) Dora Yuen outlined that the Government has put in place a number of support measures in tandem with the ordinance.

“The manpower of the Family & Child Protective Services Unit has been increased, enabling the unit to receive and handle new reports more effectively.

“We have also introduced a new service, the Child Protection Support Service, to follow up on cases involving abused children and their families.”

Enhanced services: Social Welfare Department Family & Child Welfare Branch Chief Social Work Officer (Domestic Violence) Dora Yuen (centre) outlines that manpower has been increased enabling the unit to receive and handle new reports more effectively. Image source: www.news.gov.hk

Enhanced services: Social Welfare Department Family & Child Welfare Branch Chief Social Work Officer (Domestic Violence) Dora Yuen (centre) outlines that manpower has been increased enabling the unit to receive and handle new reports more effectively. Image source: www.news.gov.hk

She added that to support those children in need of residential care services, the Government will continue to allocate more resources to increase residential places, including setting up two new residential child care centres in Tuen Mun and Kwun Tong. Providing an additional 96 places, these two centres are expected to offer emergency residential care support for about 380 young children each year.

NEW YORK (AP) — Mourners paid their respects to former U.S. Rep. Charles Rangel as his body lay in state Thursday at New York City Hall, an honor bestowed to a short list of political figures, including U.S. presidents Abraham Lincoln and Ulysses S. Grant.

The outspoken, gravel-voiced Harlem Democrat died May 26 at the age of 94 after spending nearly five decades on Capitol Hill. Rangel was among the longest serving House members, a founding member of the Congressional Black Caucus and chairman of one the chamber's most powerful committees.

On Thursday morning, a small group of mourners quietly came to pay their respects in City Hall, a landmark neoclassical building at the foot of the Brooklyn Bridge, as the surrounding streets of lower Manhattan bustled with tourists and workers.

Rangel’s closed casket sat in the building’s marbled rotunda draped with an American flag. Uniformed police stood at rigid attention on either side of him, backed by the state and nation’s flags.

Mike Keogh, a 63-year-old lobbyist and former city council staffer, was among those who knew Rangel personally.

“He had the greatest voice in New York politics at the time. It was so rich and so full,” recalled Keogh. “It just made you feel really warm to be around him and to really hang on every word.”

Tina Marie grew up in Harlem and recalled Rangel as a part of the neighborhood’s famed Gang of Four— Black Harlemites who rose to the very top of city and state politics in the 1970s through the 1990s.

The others were David Dinkins, New York City’s first Black mayor; Percy Sutton, who was Manhattan Borough president; and Basil Paterson, a deputy mayor and New York secretary of state.

“I didn't get to make the other three people’s funerals so I wanted to come and pay my respects,” said Marie, who now works for the state education department steps from City Hall. “I didn’t agree with all the things they did, but they stood up for people who couldn’t stand up for themselves.”

Louisa Ruiz, 75, recalled volunteering on Rangel’s first congressional campaign in 1970.

“We were out at 6 o’clock in the morning handing out flyers, then again at 6 o’clock in the afternoon you go back,” the native of the Dominican Republic said.

Besides Presidents Lincoln and Grant, the others accorded the City Hall honors after death include statesman Henry Clay, newspaper publisher Horace Greeley and Civil War generals Abner Doubleday and Joseph Hooker.

The last person to lie in state in City Hall was City Councilman James Davis, who was assassinated by a political opponent in the council’s chambers, located the floor above the rotunda, in 2003.

Doors opened for the public to pay their respects to Rangel beginning Thursday morning. An honor guard ceremony was held in the evening with pallbearers representing the 369th Regiment, an all-Black unit from World War I known as the Harlem Hellfighters.

New York politicians who spoke at the ceremony remembered Rangel as a tireless public servant.

“I think of so many times when Charlie Rangel had the right thing to say, got you to do something you didn’t think you wanted to do and made it all seem like it was your idea,” Hilary Rodham Clinton said.

Clinton recalled with a smile how Rangel relentlessly lobbied her to run for the Senate seat she won in 2000.

Rangel's funeral takes place Friday at St. Patrick’s Cathedral in midtown Manhattan and will be open to the public as well as livestreamed.

A wake was held Tuesday at a church in Harlem, the upper Manhattan neighborhood where the “Lion of Lenox Avenue" was born and raised. Rangel’s body arrived at City Hall on Wednesday, where there was a private evening viewing for his family.

The Korean War vet defeated legendary Harlem politician Adam Clayton Powell in 1970 to start his congressional career.

Rangel went on to become the dean of the New York congressional delegation and the first African American to chair the powerful Ways and Means Committee in 2007.

He was censured in 2010 by his fellow House members -- the most serious punishment short of expulsion -- following an ethics scandal.

Rangel relinquished his post on the House’s main tax-writing committee, but continued to serve until his retirement in 2017.

House Minority Leader Hakeem Jeffries, also a New York Democrat, lauded Rangel as a “patriot, hero, statesman, leader, trailblazer, change agent and champion for justice” when his death was announced last month.

American flag and New York State flag are lowered at half staff while the casket of former Rep. Charles Rangel, D-N.Y., lies in state in the rotunda of New York's City Hall, Thursday, June 12, 2025. (AP Photo/Yuki Iwamura)

American flag and New York State flag are lowered at half staff while the casket of former Rep. Charles Rangel, D-N.Y., lies in state in the rotunda of New York's City Hall, Thursday, June 12, 2025. (AP Photo/Yuki Iwamura)

People stand on the stairs to see the casket of former Rep. Charles Rangel, D-N.Y., in the rotunda of New York's City Hall, Thursday, June 12, 2025. (AP Photo/Yuki Iwamura)

People stand on the stairs to see the casket of former Rep. Charles Rangel, D-N.Y., in the rotunda of New York's City Hall, Thursday, June 12, 2025. (AP Photo/Yuki Iwamura)

The casket of former Rep. Charles Rangel, D-N.Y., lies in state in the rotunda of New York's City Hall, Thursday, June 12, 2025. (AP Photo/Yuki Iwamura)

The casket of former Rep. Charles Rangel, D-N.Y., lies in state in the rotunda of New York's City Hall, Thursday, June 12, 2025. (AP Photo/Yuki Iwamura)

The casket of former Rep. Charles Rangel, D-N.Y., lies in state in the rotunda of New York's City Hall, Thursday, June 12, 2025. (AP Photo/Yuki Iwamura)

The casket of former Rep. Charles Rangel, D-N.Y., lies in state in the rotunda of New York's City Hall, Thursday, June 12, 2025. (AP Photo/Yuki Iwamura)

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